Senin, 23 Februari 2009

Alone in the Dark

It is just a phrase. Not literally live in the black-out area like when the electricity down. But the “alone” part is true. I’m talking about my life few weeks ago, when my wife went away to out of town for 3 days. Yup… just me and my boy. Can’t you imagine how nasty it will be? No one else to count on, just me.

I made some comparison, check it out:
My Normal days
- Wake up at 6.45, take a bath, bath my boy, breakfast
- Left home at 7.15, bring Vinn to Baby Day Care, go to work
- Left office at 16.30 (depend on the work load), go home
- Relaxing at home, dinner, starting at 18.00 – sometimes 23.00
Those three days
- Wake up at 5.00, prepare Vinn’s hot water, prepare the breakfast, take a bath
- Wake Vinn up at 6.00, bath him, put some nappy and clothes on him, breakfast together with Vinn, put down all the lights, lock all the door,
- Left home at 7.00, bring Vinn to Baby Day Care, go to work
- Left office exactly at 16.00, pick Vinn up from Baby Day Care, go to my mom’s
- Pick up our dinner from my mom, and go home
- Arrive home at 17.00, get change, prepare dinner, take 30 minutes rest
- Dinner with Vinn at 18.00, watch movies, play with Vinn
- At 20.00 Vinn sleeps already, I have 1-2 hours relax time, sleep at 22.00

What do you think? Pretty tight schedule, heh? I don’t even believe I manage to pass those three days. Few things I learned from this loneness:
- My wife is a wonderful wife and I can’t live without her. I can’t image being a single parent for a longer period.
- How effective a person can be when the environment force him/her. The proof is the schedule above. Amazing.
- People around me are care about me and willing to help.
- What a lovely boy Vinn is (2 of 3 days, he slept in my lap when we were watching movies, so cute)

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